A Weigh Of Life.
A Weigh of Life
By Sherri Coale
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Sweat Equity
Ten in a row. The eight-year-old aspiring baller was working toward a goal. Ten lay-ups without missing on the right side, then once we got that in the books, ten more in a row on the left. Every time she got to eight, the ball lipped off the rim.
Build the Boat
In the fall of 2009, our basketball team kicked-off the season by competing in a pre-season tournament in the Virgin Islands. We were on the heels of our program’s second Final Four appearance, but we had just graduated our leading scorer and rebounder, along with her twin sister who was a major contributor, and a walk-on turned captain who had become our glue. The world was watching with a side-eye to see how we would fare.
The Gift of Hard
MIDDLE SCHOOL IS MESSY. Awkwardness is the norm, cool isn’t even a possibility, and from those halls of dysfunction, high school looks like a dreamy place you see on TV. Ninth grade is the footbridge connecting the two. I had no more taken a step on that creaky wooden connector when my anything-but-cool freshman English teacher handed me a key to a door I didn’t know existed.
Admission To That Sacred Place
Somewhere around two minutes into the second quarter, I saw it in her eyes. She had slipped inside the curtain to the place they don’t sell tickets to. It didn’t matter that there weren’t many people in the arena. It didn’t matter who the opponent was. She had entered a place where names, numbers, time, and score felt immaterial--because she held them all in the palm of her hand.
The Problem with Perfect
Practice makes perfect. At least that’s what my fifth-grade basketball coach used to say.
When you repeat a process, you get better at it. The reps help you figure out what works and what doesn’t, what’s helpful and what’s not. And you get smoother, faster-- more efficient and more skilled-- at whatever it is you are practicing. From dribbling a basketball to changing a tire to speaking in front of people, the more you do it, the better you get.
Fake a Pass to Make a Pass
The best basketball teams almost always are so because they have at least one guy with eyes in the back of his head. One guy who sees not just what is happening but any number of things that could be happening next. One guy who makes everybody else look like a million dollars because of where he puts the ball.
A Coach’s Playlist
1. “ Teach your children well”—Crosby, Stills and Nash
A coach has to be good at lots of things. Scheduling, strategizing, organizing, motivating, fundraising…the spectrum is wide and the expectations are high. But the most important thing a coach will ever do is teach. That’s the job, though it’s easy to get tricked into thinking there are more important things (like winning). Teach. Find ways to help others learn. Be innovative. Stay relevant. Teach well. That’s the heart of the position, regardless of how the job description reads. The other stuff is just window dressing.
What is the Role of a Good Assistant?
My friend just asked me that. He’s been one and he has several. I think long before I answer him because the answer isn’t at all what anybody wants to hear. It’s hard to define and even harder to measure, but this is what I think…
Thin Air
When I first met Geno Auriemma, he was wearing a sport coat with the lapels turned up like ear muffs and Italian loafers with no socks. It was snowing sideways in Norman, Oklahoma -- a typically atypical weather day in the middle of October, which made a gym full of high school athletes as giddy as the reigning national championship coach was confused.